
In response to ESSAY: A Travel Tale.
I love to travel. I simply love it. I have a traveling soul. Whatever the experience, good or bad, if it connects me to the place somehow, it still moves my soul and I still love it.
In 2005, my sister, my daughter (then 9 years old) and I went…on a whim…to the World Social Forum in Caracas, Venezuela. It was to be a low budget trip and we were scheduled to be there for 8 days and got there with nowhere to sleep. I whipped out my Lonely Planet on Venezuela and started looking for hotels. By the time we found a place that had space and was nearby, it was late and dark and we were all tired. We discovered once the sun came up, much to our delight, that we were on the coast of a small town and not yet in Caracas (which had no beaches). So we immediately hit the beach, but it was not, at all, what we expected. Beaches in New York were cleaner than this. Dirty diapers, bottle fragments, cigarette butts and all kinds of other trash littered the beach and the water. Dismayed, but not put off by the filth, my sister and my daughter decided they were going in the water immediately! I, on the other hand, abstained. After about ten minutes of frolicking in the water, they came rushing out of the water grumbling with horrified looks on their face. They say in a broken sort of unison, “You’ll never guess what we saw floating in the water right next to us.”
Well, it was human feces.
Our exit couldn’t have been faster if wild bulls were chasing us.
Our next move was to a hotel in the heart of Caracas, which was again, found in the book. We dropped our bags there and went exploring. By the time we got back to our room, it was after 11pm and we were exhausted and ready to relax.
That was not to be.
It started with us turning out the lights and my sister having to go to the bathroom. There was a small shriek and some scuffling and then all the lights came on. On my sister’s face, again, was the look of horror. For a moment she was speechless, then she said, “Roaches. Lots of roaches.” I went to take a look for myself, because I knew she was a bit squeamish about that sort of thing to discover that there were, in fact, lots and lots of roaches. And they were everywhere. My sister and I stayed up all night with the lights on killing roaches and talking while my daughter slept. I watched my daughter carefully, afraid something was going to crawl in or on her. When it was light enough to safely roam the unfamiliar streets of Caracas, we found a different, cleaner hotel.
Then my daughter got dengue fever.
But that’s another story for another time.
I sure did connect to that place…
you can charge it to misadventure for now...one day you'll laugh about it.
those episodes didn't ruin my trip at all! in fact, they enhanced it with some outrageous stuff!
it might be time to take another infamous trip, maybe this time without the feces in the ocean. hmmm...
in fact, i HAVE done it again. i went back to venezuela last summer and had a wonderful time. i didn't go to the beach tho! ;) the question is, where to this year?
This is surely one of your most unforgettable travel experience.
every travel experience is a learning tool for me and i had a wonderful time! i did see beautiful things, meet wonderful people and connect with my sister in a fantastic way.
I'm glad you told this story, helps me remember that, depending on what eyes one uses to look at things, experiences can seem very different. Thanks!
it's true, the story can be told from many vantage points! even within my own mind!
Funny story. I love to travel too... swimming with human feces...lol...sleeping with roaches...too scary.
"Then my daughter got dengue fever" --im sorry to know that...
Live life to the fullest.
for your concern. my daughter recovered quickly from her high temperature. it took about 5 days or so...
Wow...swimming with feces and sleeping with roaches. We have to get you a new travel agent ; )
I too have been to Caracas, and ironically enough, for a brief moment, I thought that I too had contracted dengue fever. I think I was a bit luckier than your daughter though. Still, I like that your experience, albeit a less than savory one, connected you to the place and strengthened your love of travel. I'm sure that at the end of your life, you'll have some great stories to tell. This was one of them.
yeah...but, the lonely planet has been my guide in so many places! i love discovering places for myself, even if some of the experiences are 'less than savory'!
the dengue fever bit was hardcore, but nonetheless, a story to be told! years from now, i'm gonna be that little old woman that tells all these outrageous stories that no one believes! but inside, i'll know it's all true. that's the best thing about sharing your life with people...they serve as a witness!
My friends describe me as impulsive as a bull. I have no plans, I act what I like on a whim. It's great, like an adventure for me. Just like what you did.
it's important to have that in our lives sometimes! lots of people think that one can't be whimsical with children involved. i believe it's important to show them that side of life too!
Life is an adventure and every adventure has a lesson. We could teach our children to find a solution for any problems we encounter. This way, we teach them to be independent.
Michel
Hola Sala..
Well that is what you had to say in Caracas. Yes, on a whim.
Why not. Planned travel is boring to say the least. Spontaneous discovery of a country is joy at the best.
You eventually learned a good lesson in a better hotel.
Blessings to you. Bendiciones a todo tu familia as they would say.
we did find the experience to be enjoyable, overall! all of those things just added to the story we told later. we met wonderful people and saw beautiful things...
If that the case then maybe you have a plenty money to manage 8 days of stay.
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actually, it was quite the opposite! we didn't have enough money to book in advance, but we read in the lonely planet for venezuela that there were plenty of hotels that would book on the spot for cheap! we eventually found a suitable place (without roaches) that came out to about $30 a night (and that was among the middle range priced places)! between my sister and i, that was definitely a steal!
I enjoyed your story.
I look forward to reading more tales of your travels.
Shawn
i'll definitely continue to share them!
I wouldn't have imagined it like that! But I made a lot of similar experiences
by traveling. The most interesting thing is coming home afterwards and realizing this enormous difference in daily life here and there. I for myself decided to be more careful with what I think to merit or expect to be "normal" in my surrounding. Sure it was not so very easy to stay cool when your child got sick!
Thank you for sharing your story, it is so interesting!
caracas sounded good to us too! the whole thing is an addition to our life experience and we love that! you're right though, it was harder to keep my cool once my daughter got sick. she had a fever of 105 in a foreign country! i was definitely worried! nonetheless, me and my daughter went back last year and the whole time she kept telling people about her first trip with laughter and a wise, experienced tone!